Don’t hesitate: sexual fantasies are okay.
Additionally, fantasizing allows us to enrich your sexual life. Talk with your
partner and play together… share your fantasies! However, there are some issues
that you should consider:
- Start talking about something harmless, such as “imagine being blindfolded and gently caress”. Sure you have some clues about what excites your partner; therefore it’s better to choose something you know he'll like. How do you react? Does it turn him on? Both of you?
- Sharing has its risks. It could be that something gets you excited but your partner doesn’t, making him/her jealous or insecure. And how do you feel about his/hers? Use your head and be cautious. Sometimes, you don’t have to be completely honest. And you're not being a hypocrite: you're taking care of your loved one and your relationship.
- Can a fantasy really achieve intensity generated when only happens in your mind? Sometimes this could be a disappointing experience because the fantasy could lose its erotic value.
- Be careful: certain fantasies are not dangerous in your mind, but in real life, if you are not ready to face it, they could be painful. And this is not only about the physical damage!
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